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Laser Show Number 3. “Happiness.”

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Today Coach Arnie Talks about having something we want, but just can’t seem to achieve it, at least a lot of individuals seem to struggle with achieving “Happiness.”  Arnie refers to one word to help Men to better understand Happiness.  “Progress.”  If we feel that we are making Progress towards achieving the expectations we have set for ourselves, Coach Arnie believes that most of us would be happy.  The problems occur when our current life conditions just don’t match up.  The gap between where we are and where we expected is too big and most of all we just aren’t making Progress.  We begin to lose Hope that we can’t achieve our expectations. This is the point that most Men begin to suffer.  Arnie talks about how changing our rules or changing our life expectations are certain strategies that will get us moving again, making Progress!  Most individuals are driven by two things in life.  Pain or Pleasure.  If it hurts enough we probably will do something about it.  And if it feels good enough, the chance is pretty good that we will want more.  The bottom line is that Coach Arnie wants us Men to understand that life is about Growing and Giving.  Our lives have meaning when we are personally growing.  If we are contributing beyond ourselves, that becomes our Purpose.  When that begin to happen in your life, there is an awful great chance for Happiness in life.  Lastly remember that life doesn’t happen to You, it happens for You!  So, Men let’s Lock Arms and help each other get on the right path to Happiness.  Working together is a great way to help each of us find that elusive desire, Happiness!

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About the author, arnie

Arnie Fonseca, Jr; "Coach Arnie." Is a Men's Life Strategist. Being an Exercise Physiologist working with traumatic injuries for over 30 years has allowed Coach Arnie to develop specific strategies to help Men overcome daunting challenges in life physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. He truly believes "We are Better Together!"

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