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Laser Show Number 11. “Hard Choices Easy Life. Easy Choices, Hard Life. You Get To Choose!”

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Today’s show is about Making Hard Choices.  Men I don’t have to tell you that this is Hard!  But if we follow through with making Hard Choices, it will make for an easy life!  But if you fall into the trap of making easy choices, you guessed it, it will lead to a much harder life! In today’s show, I’ll talk about how when you begin with small decisions which you or many might seem easy, then each time you make a Hard Choice, you will build the necessary muscle to make bigger and bigger or even Harder Choices!  I promise you guys it works!  I even shared a little story how many years ago I repeated the saying. ” Do It Now!”  Over 500 times over a weekend!  This has paid off many times for me in my life.  It comes up over and over during my life as it reminds me to get the small things out of the way.  More importantly it has helped me make Hard Choices. It’s important to remember as I shared in the show,  that when you begin to follow through on things you will get better at making decisions, and better opportunities will begin to come your way!  Also let me remind you that life really is about Growing and Giving.  And if you haven’t already noticed, it’s a common theme with many of our guests!  That’s because it’s part of success.  Lastly, I shared a lot about what I call “4 Levels of Life’s Experiences.”  Mostly how doing and turning Level 2 Experiences, which don’t feel good, into Level 1 Experiences, which feel good.  And how that process is truly the path to joy in your life!

The Key Men, as I’ve said before, to creating Joy, is Growing and Giving!  The process is making Hard Choices.  You can do it!  We are here at Answers For Real Men to help and support you!  It really is time to step up and live the life that you deserve.  That will take you starting  to make those tough decisions.  Start today.  DO IT NOW!

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About the author, arnie

Arnie Fonseca, Jr; "Coach Arnie." Is a Men's Life Strategist. Being an Exercise Physiologist working with traumatic injuries for over 30 years has allowed Coach Arnie to develop specific strategies to help Men overcome daunting challenges in life physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. He truly believes "We are Better Together!"

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