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Laser Show 12. “Disappointment!”

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Today’s show is about “Disappointment.”  This is a tough show for me.  I was motivated by my recent trip to the Grand Canyon to do a Rim to Rim to Rim.  I even dedicated a couple Laser Shows to explain the preparation and planning for what I call a “Man Size” Adventure.  Which I believe all Men need to get involved in with other Men.  The reason I’m sharing my story, which literally happened this past weekend is that it fresh on my mind and this Podcast helps me to work through it.  But the main reason is that I know that things don’t always turn out well, even with the best planning.  I don’t want that to stop you guys from reaching out to other Men and taking chances.  That’s how we build passion into our lives.  Like I’ve said before we can’t bunt our way through life.  We need to take some big swings!  But with that comes planning and preparation.  If you’ve done the homework and things don’t work out, get your butt off the ground and remember that we are never down, we are either up or getting up!  I had to be reminded the hard way that I can’t change anyone.  I must love them for who they are and accept them.  But at the same time, I am responsible for choosing who to surround myself with.  That is truly the key.  Good people with high integrity and loyalty.  That’s also who we must be so that we attract the same!

Lastly the lesson that we learn will always follow asking ourselves the question. “What does this mean?”  Learning from our experience will always make us better Men.  Ultimately that is what we want and what society wants.  Also, I’m reminded that God’s delays are not God’s denials!  Get back in the ring or field of battle and figure it out.  I know you can do it and we believe in YOU!

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About the author, arnie

Arnie Fonseca, Jr; "Coach Arnie." Is a Men's Life Strategist. Being an Exercise Physiologist working with traumatic injuries for over 30 years has allowed Coach Arnie to develop specific strategies to help Men overcome daunting challenges in life physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. He truly believes "We are Better Together!"

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